Dress code
Come looking good
It is not about formality, it is part of the game. Dressing up is half the fun: to please, to look and to be looked at.
Women
Sexy, elegant, casual… whatever you like, but with intent. No sportswear.
Men
Smart casual: shirt and long trousers. It shows when someone has made an effort. No sportswear.
House rules
Respect is not negotiable: ask first, and no means no, always.
Hygiene is taken as read.
The balance is looked after deliberately. There are no advance bookings for single men: entry is assessed at the door, with a very limited quota that depends on the balance of couples in the room at that moment. Good presentation and absolute respect for couples are expected.
Right of admission reserved.
Not sure what to wear?
If you are unsure, ask before you leave home. Better that than an awkward moment at the door.